Nearly 1 in 2 young adults in the U.S. live with their mom and dad, even post the pandemics. That’s almost twice the ratios in the 50s and 60s. More and more young people are failing to find stable jobs and support themselves.
Whether you like having your adult children around the house, few parents savor the thoughts of paying for and cleaning after them in perpetuity. That’s why honing kids’ life skills may be the more important than helping their academics, because these are the skills necessary to building an independent and fulfilling life.
ÂGetting your kids to join volunteer activities would instill in them some important values. Through volunteering, children would undertake vital experiences and develop essential skills that would benefit them as they face the real world once they enter adulthood.
Here are ten essential skills that children would gain from volunteering.
1. Empathy and Compassion
Volunteering enables children to see and experience the lives of other people. Volunteers gain insights into the struggles, challenges, happiness, and successes of people in their community.
Children who engage in volunteer work get to experience living and walking into someone else's shoes and get an insight into other people's lives and the different ways people cope with the different scenarios and experiences that they encounter in their day-to-day lives. They gain insight and different perspectives other than their own.
Through this experience, children develop empathy and compassion, enabling them to build meaningful relationships as they relate to other people's lives, having been able to experience them through volunteering.
2. Teamwork and Collaboration
By volunteering, children get to work with other people. Working with other people and being able to work harmoniously with other people is critically paramount in today's interconnected world.
Working with other people helps children understand the value of sharing a common goal. This builds in them the concept of teamwork.
Working with the team, they experience and learn different perspectives and viewpoints from others. They realize that other members may have different ideas or approaches than their own. They learn how to deal with these and teach them to express their viewpoints and opinions positively and meaningfully, thereby becoming a positive and significant team member and contributor to the community.
3. Responsibility and Accountability
In volunteering, children learn to take on different roles and the responsibilities that come with that role. It teaches children the sense of being able to work on that responsibility and being accountable for the output and result of their own actions.
This experience will build in them the necessary values that will become the cornerstone for their future endeavors in school, work, and personal relationships. They learn that their individual contributions and the contributions of the different members matter and that these collective contributions will determine the success of the group or the community.
1. Problem-Solving Skills
Life is not a walk in the park. Every now and then, life throws challenges and problems along the way.
Learning how to deal with these problems and challenges is essential for success and happiness. It is important that early on in life, children are equipped with how to handle this.
Through volunteering, kids experience real-world situational problems and challenges, requiring them to think and find solutions.
By volunteering while they are still young, they get to learn how to address these problems and challenges, developing their critical thinking and problem-solving skills. These skills would later prove more beneficial in empowering them to handle bigger situations and challenges in their adult life.
2. Leadership and Initiative
Volunteering presents kids with opportunities to take leadership roles. They can volunteer or be voted as the group leader or take the lead for certain projects.
Roles and experiences such as this are important and will become invaluable later in their adult lives. These will teach and build leadership skills, enabling them to handle other kids and other people.
They also learn how to delegate and assign roles to team members. At the same time, it will teach them how to manage conflict among team members. This will build their confidence and provide motivation and inspiration for the entire team.
3. Time Management
Kids go to school, help with household chores at home, and attend to other daily duties. Volunteering requires children to do tasks and activities outside of these daily routines.
Children learn how to prioritize and balance their time by managing all these activities. They learn that they cannot do all of these simultaneously with all the things going on in their lives.
This acceptance is important to help build their time management skills. This allows them to set goals and schedules and learn to prioritize projects, tasks, or activities.
Children will eventually learn how to balance the demands of school, extra-curricular activities, household chores, and volunteering. Early in life, they learn how to prioritize the different demands of life.
4. Communication Skills
Volunteering gives children opportunities to interact not just with other kids but also with adults. Communicating with different people at different levels and listening to other peoples' opinions, thoughts, and ideas allows children to build on their communication skills.
Effective communication is an important cornerstone for success at any stage in life and in any field. Volunteering will give children the chance to communicate and articulate their thoughts and ideas and convey this with confidence.
5. Adaptability and Flexibility
Life is full of challenges. As the saying goes, it is not the strong that survives but those who can adapt.
Volunteering allows children to learn not just through their own experience but also through the experience of others. They gain valuable insight, teaching, guidance, and coaching from other senior members of the group.
The knowledge and experiences they gain help hone their coping abilities, enabling them to adjust their perspectives and adapt to the changes happening around them, be it situations or circumstances. It teaches them flexibility, to be open-minded, that there is more than one way of doing things, and that other perspectives or approaches may be necessary for success.
6. Civic Responsibility and Community Engagement
No man is an island. We all live in a community together and with each other.
Each of us has the responsibility and civic duty to perform and contribute to a positive and thriving society. This may be one of the most important values that children can have in volunteering.
Volunteering teaches children this sense of responsibility to the community, to be concerned for the well-being of others, and instills in them the civic duty of their commitment as positive contributors to the community.
1. Self-Esteem and Confidence
As children volunteer, they become a part of something meaningful as they see the positive results of their hard work. As they achieve their goals, they experience success.
These positive experiences boost a child's self-esteem and confidence. Meaningful achievements help children realize their value as contributors and enhance their belief in themselves. It shows them that they can bring a positive impact on their community and the world.
Building on this confidence, children will be better equipped and have the positive mindset that they can overcome any challenge that may come their way and give them the courage and motivation to pursue their goals, dreams, and ambitions.
Conclusion
As parents, we must ensure that our children are equipped with the essential skills and values they need to succeed.
Volunteering is a powerful and positive way for children to learn and cultivate these essential skills.
Let us all encourage our children to volunteer and support them in this journey to help build their character and ensure a good, enriching, and successful life.